Ever want a chance to hang with people who are ahead of the game, focusing on what matters, and developing strategies to align their actions with their aspirations? That’s so hard to find when everyone wants a piece of you. 

“I just need a minute of your time.” Or, “Can we hop on a quick call?” Or, “Mom, mom, mom, mom, moooommmmmmm!!!” No matter your role, you know what it sounds like. 

Today we’re focusing on how to keep your peace, while everyone wants a little something from you. It’s really this simple: take time for you, set boundaries, keep your boundaries. 

Be willing to get support as you build the life you really want. Ultimately, you need to focus on what you’ve been tolerating. People treat you in a certain way because either they’re oblivious or, more likely, you’ve taught them how to treat you. What are you putting up with?

What is it time to let go of?

You can maintain your boundaries by being clear. Ah, yes, clarity again. Yes, there’s a reason that concept keeps coming up. It’s because most people don’t have it. 

“I really need a minute of your time.”

“Great, I can break away for about five minutes at 2:30 today.”

“Oh, but I might need more than five minutes.”

“Ah, I see. I thought you said that you needed a minute of my time and I was offering you five. So, you need a full meeting? Let’s go ahead and schedule that for Thursday.”

You gain clarity. You keep boundaries. You maintain your own schedule and don’t try to squeeze everyone in because you please no one in doing so. And you only fall behind. 

The way to get ahead is to surround yourself with people, even in industries adjacent to yours, who can offer insight and leverage. Doing that in a space that encourages self-reflection is powerful. 

Keep your boundaries. Build your network. Grow yourself. Then, that piece of you they want, it’s so much more valuable and you’ll be much more protective of it. Give that some thought!

See you here next week!

Keep making your magic!

= Wayne = 

The Exponential Success Summit is my small-group mastermind. You’ll engage in guided discussions, collaborative exercises, and shared support for the path you’re on. It’s powerful and more information is HERE. Reach out with questions.