Have you ever felt so confused that you didn’t know what to do first? Confusion is your subconscious’ way of stopping you from forward momentum. 

Confusion paralyzes you with doubt and stops your growth.

And that’s the way the subconscious likes things. Your subconscious is “safe” with what’s known, even if what’s known is chaos. 

I’ve had friends that seem only to know struggle and self-sabotage. I’ve offered guidance and ultimately had to step back. Promises they make are broken over and over. Now, when promises are made, I know they’re lies. 

They live their life confused and overwhelmed. What they don’t seem aware of is that other people can see the cycle and, more significantly, that others know that their turmoil is a choice. It really is. By changing a few key things in their life, they’d shift the balance of their thinking. 

A rodent on a hamster wheel likes to run on the hamster wheel. After running for a while, it’ll hop off, look for a nibble, and hop back on again. I’m pretty certain that they know they’re just running on a wheel. In this way, the hamsters are smarter than some humans who just don’t seem to see it.

Confusion and chaos, that’s such a “safe” place to be. The people who live that way point outward, looking at external circumstances, never realizing that they created those circumstances and that the fix is in their control. 

It might not be comfortable and yet, the fix they’re after is in their control. 

You’ll see it at work. You’ll see it in some of your friends. You might even see it in your family members. 

Now, look inward. Are you seeing it in yourself? At all? 

f you have any confusion or chaos that seems to crop up just when you’re about to have a breakthrough, it’s likely your subconscious that’s holding you back.

There are a few ways to break out and break through:

• Get brutally honest with yourself and take radical accountability for the circumstances you’ve created.
• Journal: Spend some alone time with your thoughts. Get them out.
• Talk it out. Get a coach or a therapist. Talk through your subconscious games. DO NOT choose a guide who simply agrees and supports you. You don’t need to be coddled or rescued. You’ve come too far for that.
• Get into an accountability group where everyone is working on leveling up their lives. That’s the kind of support you need – see what others are doing hold them accountable for their growth and hold yourself accountable for yours!

Confusion is basically your psyche’s way of alerting you that something is about to change. You need to get back in control of you. Go on! Grow on!!!

Keep making your magic!

See you here next week!

= Wayne = 

The answers you want might just be right in front of you! HERE.